Personal Development Tip - True Inner Intent Equals Outcome Always

No matter what the outcome is; it holds purpose and is created as we desired it to be for a higher level of self realization.

 Find ways to empower self by being responsible for what stands before you as an experience you chose to have. Without judging the experience, allow yourself to feel it, learn from it, and contemplate the change that will assist you in reaching both your short and long term goals, then place an action behind your words. If you judge, blame, run away, or turn your back on what challenges you, you will soon discover that what you are running from is an aspect of self that you haven't accepted/loved as self. We all know that we can't run away from ourselves. 

 If you maintain clear vision, focus, clarity of intent and a continual commitment to empowering/loving self expands you are able to open doors of opportunities that are closed to those with self defeating attitudes. Continue to pray, meditate, love, laugh, declare, and create a playfulness in what you do. Be who you desire to be through balanced action, trust and keep the inner knowing that all that is internally desired is given unto you. 

 If you are sincere about your passion, and your dreams, don't do it halfheartedly. Go for it. Accept no excuses. Just do it. Flow with and live life instead of reacting to or running from life. Quit looking for life to be reasonable from a limited perspective. Expand beyond old ways that no longer support life as you dream it to be.

Read: The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself

If your life doesn't appear to be 'working', reevaluate what you are doing to find your true intent. Refine and improve the questions you ask yourself by looking honestly at what 'is' the outcome. Whatever the outcome 'is', is exactly what you wanted to have to receive an expanded level of self-realization. Examine what you perceive you may lose or gain and you can discover your unconscious beliefs. Remember the most important aspect that allows the desired change to accrue is honesty and responsibility to yourself. Accept the fact that what is 'reality' in your life is exactly what you internally desire. If you create a life of hardship, it is because you gain a worth from it being that way. 

 If you logically speak this is not what you desire, go deep within your heart and ask yourself what are your payoffs. For all actions are for self-interest and there is a payoff if you look under the layers of reactive behavior. You react and perform for others in the desire to receive or give what you perceive love to be. If your need for validation is stronger than what you speak you desire, you will create a reality to support your strongest requirement. Take full responsibility for your creations without judgment on self or blame on another.

 Remember, all that stands before you, whether you like it or not, is your creation. It is your way to receive what you perceive love to be. The only way to change your reality is by being responsible for what you have created without judgment or blame. Whatever you have created holds purpose. Find the purpose, find the good, then move on! Holding onto the mindset that what was created was painful only gives it the opportunity to recreate more pain. Remember, fear and pain can not live within self unless it is given credence to do so in any form. Fear perpetuates fear. To end an existence of fear, discover what unconscious thought is creating it.

Also Read: A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose (Oprah's Book Club, Selection 61)


Look at the outcome of each situation and how you were served by that situation. Denial that you have not been served continues the re-occurrence of that fear. We are always being served no matter what is the perceived pain. That which is not to be for our highest good will never be, and that which is to be for our highest good will always be. Trust in an intelligence that lives within self as an all knowing energy force in its purest form. 

When you silence the ideology of a judgmental mind, you will open your world to peace, harmony and an inner fulfilling abundance. This type of allowance unfolds a joyous, harmonious love within self. As we continue to unfold the unshakable love that lives within all of us, we realize we are never at the "effect of" any human experience unless we chose to be.

6 Ways To Face Problems

Most people don't talk about problems because of the 'negativity' associated with it. You can't avoid having problems in your life unless you don't have one. Don't look at problems as something that needs to be removed in order to solve them. 


Think of them as an opportunity for you to improve. Simply because, by defeating your problems, you will learn useful lessons.




Here are 6 ways how to treat your problems positively:



1. Never Feel Misfortune With Your Problems


Always remember that the existence of a problem doesn't mean you ought to feel misfortunate or ashamed. True, the problem might be the consequence of your poor judgment in decisions but regretting that won't help you to deal with the problem in front of you. Everything happens for a reason and the reason ALWAYS for your own good.


2. A Problem Means An Opportunity


It's hard to accept this fact - our mind has a game of its own. If you can see the 'opportunity' in things, you will be able to anticipate the problems because it's an opportunity for you to learn something new and overcome your weaknesses. Certainly, nobody will ask for more problems in their life but if it's unavoidable, then let's make the best of the situation. When you get lemons, make lemonade.


3. Be "Professional"


If the problem arises from others (which is very common), you must stay strong not to be affected emotionally by it and don't let it enter you. You have to build a mental barrier to block the negativity from entering your mind. This is not easy because when others are emotionally down, you subconsciously feel it too. Be strong or you'll get sucked into it too. Step away from the problem and look at it as an 'issue' rather than a personal thing.



4. Look Beyond The Problem To See The Solution



You can't solve your problem if you don't know what you're trying to solve and so see the problem already solved. Secondly, it helps in terms of motivation because it's always more motivating when you're in a celebrative mood. Have you watched the Lord Of The Rings movies? If yes... remember how challenging it is for Frodo Baggins to destroy the Ring? His journey has so many obstacles and the only thing that gets him to continue is seeing how wonderful it'll be once the Ring is destroyed.


5. Stop Attracting Problems With Your Mind Power



If you continue to get a new problem after a problem is solved, you might want to check how your mind is working. Believe it or not, these problems are the result of your inside and outer mental attitude. You can call it "Law of Attraction" if you want. Have you heard of 'streak of bad luck'? This is caused by your own mindset. Many people don't realize what their minds are capable of doing.


6. Laugh At Your Problems



Humor may be an effective counter poison to a lot of problems of the mind. Next time when you have problems, smile or laugh. Your problems will still be there but who knows, you'll find you have more ideas to solve them and feel less stressed out. You'll never know - it might just turn out to be the most effective "problem solver" tool.



Last of all, think of other people - others who are facing bigger problems than you. You'll be grateful that your "problem" of unable to buy a new car is actually nothing compared to someone in your city who doesn't even have a car to drive. Be gratitude with what you have because even if you can't solve your problems, you still have so many more things and intangible wonders in your life.